Ok so today i got caught shoplifting at sears i am worried of whats gonna happen?

i mean is it going to show on my record and how is it going to affect me...this is how it happened i went into sears with my gf and i notice some shorts without a sensor thing i was so tempted on getting them but i was scared because i am not a thief but i finally decided to put them on top of my other shorts i walked around bought a couple of things and as soon as i stepped out of the store some guys aproached me and told me to follow them i didnt want to make a scene or be in more trouble so i just cooperated. i went into the room and gave them my id i was in there for a long time. they wrote a long report and had me sign some papers she then called their legal department and told me that they would call back in a few minutes. at first they said no cops would be involved so i was relieved but after she made another call to the legal department she said that police might come but she wasnt sure. police never came and she ended up letting me leave but told me i would recieve a letter on the mail in about 3 weeks. that the letter would be a fine between 40 dollars to 400 dollars depending on what their legal department thinks....the item i tried stealing was only 9.99 on the rack but they wrote it down as 36 supposebly that was the real price i didnt damage the item at all i actually had asked them if i could just purchased the item and leave but they didnt let me until i filled out some papers. someone please help me with the situation i just wanna know if this affects my record and also how much the fine would be when it comes in....i regret my act today and i feel like crap..i need some answers please

What do you do if you put too much tension on your thigh?

i have been playing tennis a lot and jogging in the mornings and i've been putting a lot of tension in my thighs. right now they hurt a lot and they kept me up all night. what should i do to relieve the pain and make it better?

Does Anyone Else Hate this about Politics?

agreed but in all seriousness in terms of actual politics there isnt a big difference between the democrats and the republicans

Acl surgery question?

Just had acl surgery with the patellar graft. Im finally sleeping on my sides and what not but I can't walk much less stand up because the bruises are KILLER when I stand up and the blood rushes to my knee... this is 7 days after surgery. Does anyone have any tips on faster recovery.. better ROM and to take bruises down.. plus how to relieve pain after standing up?? Thanks :) btw... I didn't have any meniscus torn so it was just the graft.

Post Dental Bone Graft Question?

I had a tooth extraction (Tooth #4) this past Thursday and a dental bone graft was put into place. Since then, the area where the stitches and what I am guessing to be membrane (it's a soft white material) has descended. I am in no pain, but am concern is the surgical area material supposed to have descended to the extent that you can't tell there is a tooth missing anymore because the material fills the hole of where the tooth was (it did not look like that the day of surgery). My dentist is unable to be reached and I don't know if this is to be expected.

I got this pot dealer i know to get me some weed i spent $200 he didn't get it but says he will get my money..?

Was buying the weed for me and my friends for a festival, i stayed up late that night waiting for a message to tell me he got it turns out he messaged me 10 mins after i fell asleep. He didnt get it in time and we went to the festival and had a great weekend without the use of or maybe a little bit of marijuana.. After the weekend i got back and decided to go pick up my package or see if he would give my money back. He says he got jumped when he was in town selling weed and he had my package on him.... it is now three months later and after continuously being messed around by this guy i am very stressed. The type of answer i am looking for is not some kind of drug psychology or some ghetto ways to get back at him, i wanna know how i can stop thinking about that money while maintaining my hold on him. At the moment he doesn't know what i am capable of so he is still trying to get my money, or so he says. BUT i cannot stop thinking about it, it is ruining my sleep at night it is interrupting my schoolwork and i am starting to think of doing horrible things to him to get him back. Please someone relieve me of my stress!! btw i know i shouldn't smoke pot while at school but honestly i am doing fine at school. I only smoke pot about every 2 weeks as a stress reliever, i am always cautious when smoking pot and i'm not an aggressive individual.

NEED HELP!!!!!!! SERIOUSNESS ONLY!!!!!! HELP!!?

you have to be friends and hang out and keep your friends away from him he probably wants to get to know you if you jump into a relationship then its just awkward and pointless and their is no connection. i would say just be friends and try to hang out with him before things become serious.

Is there such thing as being allergic to alcohol?

So, I have never been a big drinker. However, I am also not a light weight either. But, the problem is, when I drink (and this is in all seriousness -- not a troll question or a dumb question) it really upsets my stomach. I have two go to the bathroom a lot (number 2) and it just makes my bowels not feel well. Is it possible that I may have some sort of allergy or is this normal? I mean I feel like that generally after the first drink. Any help is appreciated.

What will help a constipated newborn?

My nine day old baby is severely constipated and we've been up all night. What can get her going and relieve her pain?

My boyfriend has a best friend that likes him and now I�m jealous?

Girl i have been in the same situation. i talked to my bf bout it and thats exactly what he told me. and everyday it got worst cause i was in none of his classes and he was always busy on the weekends so he would always talk to her. but what was different is she wanted to become ''friends' and i hated her. i tried to make him jealous my talking with his friends and ignoring him but verry bad idea. but anyway if you want to i told the girl what my problem was but it didnt help really but its ok your not selfish hes your man and its his own fault that hes talking to another girl trust me the jealousy doesnt really go away i dont know if you wanna break up with him or not also tell him that your not sure if you wanna still be in relationship cause hes always with that girl really talk to him bout it really show that your upset im with you that he needs to stop talkin to her like i said its your choice if you really wanna break up but i know how you feel i dont know if this was any help and im srry if it wasnt but dont worry your not alone

Bone Grafting Surgery Questions?

getting bone grafting done in two days im SOO scared. i have two mising teeth and in order to put the dental implants they need to put bone grafts in two locations (my two front teeth) WILL their be swelling. DOES it hurt and give me any other information please please please and stories and do i get novicane/shot on my arm

GILS PLZ HELP!!!! why is she being such a b*tch?

i told her i liked her and never made a move. after i told her, she wouldnt talk to me but she would always smile at me whenever i looked at her and this went on for a week, then she completely started ignoring me and would sometimes talk to me, we had a small conversation about this hsitty teacher, and trying to make me jealous by flirting with other guys in front of me, and she randomly had called me by my nickname that she had taken away that month but then stopped becuase i didnt respond surprised, one day, i stared i turned around and we stared at each other for like a second and she just turns to this other guy and gives him a flirty face. this went on for a month or two. Then we had a group assignment and she kept insisting on me being in her group, and i just joined so that i can finish faster. Then one day, she just messages me that she needed help fixing her phone, which i was foolish enough to do, then the next day she was kissing this guy in front of me with no regard that i was there and she knew she was hurting me and they werent even goin out yet, then she just comes up to me all nice and crap and talks about how her phone was broken and was all nice to me, and she would call me by my nickname that she had given me and would be the only person to call me that but had taken it away during that month, then she would try to talk to me by rubbing her hand all the way down my arm, then the teacher takes my drum sticks away and she yelled out 'aww poor jorgie'...the nickname she gave me, then she moved to the seat in front of me and started stretching back and putting her hair in my face, but then i would ignore her and she would get mad and threatened to delete me from her blackberry messenger, then she brought up my status that i had on bbm and started laughing...'**** blackberry' and she asked why i put that while cracking up and in all seriousness i said 'cuz its true' and she got kindapissed and put her head down and i guess got sad cuz she stopped talking to just about everyone then the next time i saw her, they we're officially going out, and then she started giving me the cold shoulder again and only talked to me when she needed me, but then we were watching a movie in class and again, she moved to the seat in front of me and did the same hair and stretching thing, and she turned around a few times to ask me about the movie and then she turned around and saw me on my phone and said 'what are you doing' i acted like i didnt hear her and i said 'what?' and she just turned around saying 'never mind'...what does she want plz help!!! Then, on the second to last day of school, we kept catchin eachother's eyes for like a second then she just held it and gave me a wass nod and i returned it and we kept nodding back and forth. Then i put up my phone for sale, and she is in love with it, and she just texts 'gimme ur bold <3' as if we were bestfriends...then on the last day of school, the only thing she said was 'wassup jorge' and i replied like a normal person would...'hey'. she never brought up the message, but could she be pissed at that, we're both 15

Why am I having such a hard time with my mom?

I know she is really trying to make me happy, but all she does is make me miserable. First off, I have anxiety, and she can't comprehend that I'm not trying to be irrational; that's just how I think. Then she will act like I'm being mean and taking stuff too seriously when I get upset, but I can't help it. I also lost weight in the fall to the point where I was unhealthy. I started seeing a nutritionist, and she says I am at a healthy weight, but my mom doesn't believe it. She will go and buy food that she knows I like and she won't eat it so that I feel like I have to have it just to let it not go to waste. She knows that I had to gain weight, and even though I am healthy, it's still hard when she will eat barely anything (no carbs), but I have to force food down my throat even though I am not hungry just to eat enough. Then she practically brags about how she doesn't like to eat this or she doesn't like that, and it's really upsetting because I feel like she is rubbing it in my face. I hurt my hip, so I can't go running, but that is how I relieve my stress. It's all building up inside me, so I keep getting stomach cramps because I have nowhere to release my frustration. I'm just going crazy and I don't know what to do!

What are ways men show they care?

I would talk to him and ask him how you're supposed to know that he cares and what he does to show you that he cares. My boyfriend would tell me that he loves me. He would go on walks with me whenever I wanted to and when I asked something of him he would do it. Oh he was your ex. Then maybe he just didn't care. I'm sorry to say it. I've had boyfriends that didn't care. Find someone that does. Concentrate on yourself. Read a book. Spend time in the sun. Go for a walk. Get over your ex. (find a new love once you're completely happy with yourself and love yourself)

Question about PPD/PPI and fair settlement offer?

I live in Oklahoma and had a hamstring graft surgery in addition to a prosthesis to replace my acl after a worker's comp injury. The surgery took place, Oct. 14th and I am now to the point where I was released by my Doctor and we are talking about the settlement with my adjuster. The doctor rated me at 9% PPD and the offer is 17,000. Is that a fair amount, any help would be appreciated because I have no experience with this. Personally I feel it is a little low considering I am only 28 and will likely have problems down the road with the leg but again I have no real way of knowing. I also endured 4 months of grueling PT so is that factored in at all. Thanks in advance for any advice :)

Will a spermatic cord block affect fertility?

if he just gave a shot to deaden or numb the nerves it will not last and you will be able to ejaculate and have children when you re older

Health issues due to black toxic mould?

find a good lawyer --- there are (or were) several cases that I have heard about and yes, that stuff is very dangerous. And some of the blame does fall on the landlord.

Why Continuous use of Max Epa (Omega 3) is not advisable.?

I take Max Epa For about 10 days to relieve pain in and around joins and discontinue for about 2 months or till I get pain again. Is it bad?

Connective gum tissue graft?

i had a connective gum tissue graft yesterday and today i woke up and it looked like the tooth was just covered in blood. i wasnt sure if the tissue peeled off or if its just dried blood... im afraid to touch it .. has anyone experienced this? i called the office and they told me to come in tomorrow but im hoping it didnt unattach itself

Replacing HYPHEN and FULL STOP with a space in a cell in excel?

If A1 has JOHN DE-GRAFT, B2 should display JOHN DE GRAFT. Secondly if A1 has MARK G. K. HACKMAN, B2 should show MARK G. K. HACKMAN. Please i need answers for both situations. Thanks

Hives of unknown origin on bottoms of feet and palms of hands?

I heard about that, I know what you been doing. Shame on you. And on the bottom of your feet, you must be one heck of a contortionist.

Did she have right to tell me no?

i wouldve went and had a good time, she dont have the right to tell you not to, dont let her control you like that

Serious anxiety whenever I don't excercise?

I'm going through a rough patch where the girl I love doesn't love me back, and I've been trying to figure out what to do. Most of the time I can exercise myself into feeling okay, but on the days that I can't exercise like today, I feel like I'm falling apart. I can hear my heart beating, I go onto websites to check if this girl messaged me back, if she has then I feel relieved for a second but if I respond the I feel like I'm going to go crazy because I can't take not knowing what she'll say. I'm trying to figure out what to do right now, but it's literally all I can think about... is there some sort of pill I could take, food I could eat, anything to make this feeling go away?

My family wont accept me for who I am as a person?

Emma,in a way I feel sorry for you being in the situation you are.Just think of what you are saying though.You work hard at college,you have got into university etc but cannot find a job.Who has been keeping you until now and who is going to pay your uni fees?It seems on the face of it you are shunning your family for your b/f.All youngsters go through this.If you think that you can support yourself financially if you left home and went to uni by all means leave home but remember you will be on your own without any support.I personally think that you are giving up too much time with your b/f and not concentrating on the more important aspects you are about to face.I am not condemning you in any way but I do feel that you have got to get your feet on the ground,find a job,get your uni sorted out [you will be leaving home anyway] and think of the future,not the past.Good luck and I hope you soon find a job,even if it is part time.

I want the guy that i like to be relieved, and not nervous anymore?

i want to make it clear that i like the guy, that way he won't be nervous, and he'll be relieved. i just don't know how to do this?

Is this Spotting or early period and am I pregnant?

ok so here is the deal I am on the pill and me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex on the 13th and 18th (which is my first and last day of ovulation) And I missed the pill two days in a row (18th and 19th: left it home) Now we are NOT TTC but it just happened to fall on these days. yesterday which was a full 7 days before my period is due I noticed some pink bleeding after using the bathroom (10 days after the 13th and 5 days after the 18th), and now today I noticed some brownish blood Im guessing.I went to the bathroom and seen that I have blood but not enough to fill a pad. Anyways I have been feeling a bit more tired (sleeping in late) and a little bit of nausea here and there, do you think that Im pregnant or just panicking ? Please let me know what you think, and all seriousness also (no fooling around)

Flesh eating tree? What?

Our teacher told us there is a tree that when you touch its bark, it burns and eats away at your tree. One of the kids touched the tree and needed a skin graft. What is the name of this tree?

How long would it take me to get from this...too this?? Pics included?

14 stone for a bloke at your height isn't far off. Keep up the exercise, eat real food not processed crap and remember to get out of doors once in a while.

Can I go to a community college just to get my gen. eds?

Typically, a state university will accept transfer credits from a community college. However, all schools have their own stipulations and acceptance policies. The only way to get an answer that is 100% accurate is to call an enrollment adviser from ISU.

LeBron James or Michael Jordan in the Wizards?

u know what they both have in common? they both don't have a title lol but in all seriousness, who's better?

Cyst on bellybutton piercing?

Can't you get this sort of information at where you got your button pierced? As for the bump, POP it! Carefully though, you can destroy the skin surrounding the bump and infect it when you squeeze, make sure everything's clear of bacteria

Planting Gardenia shrub in SWFL?

I'm getting conflicting information on the internet and from nursery employees on whether it is imperative to plant ONLY grafted gardenia plants in SW Florida. I am told by some that only the grafted plants will survive because of some sort of bug that is in the ground and prone to attacking plants that are not grafted. I prefer to plant one of the non-grafted varieties because I don't want it to look like a small tree as the grafted ones do. They will be planted on either side of the garage (near cement) and the east side of the house. Even though I realize they grow quite large I intend to keep them fairly well trimmed so they don't obstruct the walkways. Do you think the "Mystery" variety non-grafted will work and will it not bloom nicely if I need to keep it too closely trimmed?

How to raise drowning awerness and help the family?

some of you may heard of the almost drowning of a little girl named tori on basset lake MI right now she is in intensive care and was under water for about 15 min. now i live on a lake also and that is like the number one worry but she was visiting and not living on the lake so she may have not known how to swim well. i want o know your ideas on how i can help raise awareness and seriousness i thought about having swimming lessons but i just don't have the time and i cant go around making sure everyone has a life jacket on also how can i help that girls family there is a 50/50 chance she could live its hard to live when you have been under water that long one last thing i am asking that you all pray for little tori and that she comes out fine thank you sooooo much

What is Reciprocal grafting?

a href="http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2784906/" rel="nofollow"http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles…/a This is just one web site on the subject. There are many depending on what exactly your info is needed for.

How come whenever politicians are in legal trouble, you can tell which party they belong to by the seriousness?

Adulterers are always republican, but if they're led away in shackles they're either democrat or socialist, like that French rapist from the IMF.

She's just starting talking with her ex?

Yeah, so my girlfriend of 1 year and 3 months now as I haven now just discovered; has contacted her ex. She didn't make the initial contact, but still none the less she responded. I know it's probably nothing, as she hasn't replied to him; still even so it bothers me. This man cheated on her, and it had really hurt her. I know she had a tendency in past relations to be drawn back to her exs' and that is why I am worried. I think it was about the same time last month that we were listening to a song on the radio together, and she had stopped it about halfway through. She was saying that it reminded her of her ex. She hasn't talked to me about any of this (Yeah, I'm a horrible person...) thought I'm sure it's in reference of said ex. Is this something that I should worry about? Trust has always been a wavering issue with me in this relationship. Perhaps because it is my first, or perhaps maybe because I have reason to be suspicious. After the second month of us dating, she had told another person that she loved them; and later proceeded to tell me that she was in fact 100% serious (Serious love). And about after the 6th month of dating, she invited over this guy friend of hers so that I could "meet" him. Despite knowing the fact that I am a bit socially awkward, she had proceeded to do so. Though I held through, I could not help notice that the majority of her time was spent catering to him. She was staying close to him, quite intimate in her body language. It was as if they were the ones that were dating. She later admitted to having loved that man as well, though thankfully he did not feel the same; as I might have ended up watching a rather illegal version of pay per view. In all seriousness, that is how serious she seemed about him. Not that I really wish to justify my actions, but this has just really screwed me up. I honestly cannot say that there is a day that goes by that I don't think about these things and just wonder if I shouldn't just leave. I'd like to say I love her. I honestly enjoy being around her quite a lot, but when she is being so immature as to totally and utterly ignore the pain that she is putting me through, and continuously making me question her love for me... I just don't know if it's worth it. I do what I can for her and her family. I do their oil changes, I service their vehicles, I mow their grass, I help out with the dishes occasionally, I've cooked for them, I've helped them move furniture to their sisters home, as well as transport fitness equipment from the store into their basement... I've done quite a bit for her family. Though, it could be said that I could do a little bit more for her. That being said though, I haven't gotten a job yet, as well as I've just been kicked out of school; so it's not like I can just stroll over there with some nice flowers and sweets. I do what I can, and I would think that it would be enough... I can only voice my own opinion though, so that is why I am here to ask for yours. What do you think I should do?

How painful is Tommy John surgery and the recovery period?

Im 19 and have a complete tear of my UCL, the ligament reconstructed in Tommy John surgery. I go to the doctor next week and Im hoping to get the surgery as soon as possible. I was wondering what Im going to be looking at as far as pain from the surgery and recovery, how long my arm is going to be immobilized for, and if there is a preferred place I should have the graft tendon harvested from? Any tips would be helpful.

Pap smear questions! please help?

It is not painful, just slightly uncomfortable. You will be fine and looking into it way more than you need to. The dr will be experienced in it - they do them every day and you can tell them its your first one and you are nervous. Around 3 times a week my doctor gets girls coming in because their tampon is stuck up there - pap tests are so so important and once you have the first one you will realise it is nothing to worry about.

TREE GRAFTING QUESTION?

IF I SEE A FULL GROWN TREE THAT I LIKE, IS THERE ANY WAY I CAN REMOVE A PART OF IT, AND GROW ONE OF MY OWN?? HOW CAN I DO THIS?? HOW DOES IT HAPPEN IN NATURE??

Dog can't poop, already taken to vet. What's wrong with him?

try rice , condliver oil ( idk how to spell it put that sounds like the pronceation), prune juice and ask about doggy laxitives. hope this helps

How bad is a gum graft? Is it better to be awake or asleep during it?

It's always better to be "out" for any kind of gum work. General anesthetic would be preferable, but if they give you Lidocaine and Nitrous Oxide, you should be fine. There's a good chance you will fall asleep, and even if you don't you'll be so out of it you'll hardly feel it -- IF you feel it at all. One word of warning, however: Make sure you have someone else to take you home. You will be in no condition to drive for at least three hours.

Pulled/ torn hamstring after ACL surgery?

4 days after my ACL Reconstruction (Hamstring Graft) and Meniscal Repair i started walking without crutches. everything was good. I went swimming, doing some freestyle and focusing on my kicking when I felt a weird tear in the back of my thigh of my operated leg. i heard a crack/pop/tear (in the back of my thigh) and my hamstring started hurting. my knee feels great but i know whats left of my hamstring hurts in a certain are. i didn't do damage to the graft did i? And anyone have any experience ith this kind of thing?

What is wrong with my Mums lower leg, ankle to toes, terrible aching pain, to do with nerves?

My Mum has sore ankle, feet! The pain actually started as soon I was born, when you rub/squeeze her foot it relieves the pain, then when you stop the ache comes back? They sometimes feel a little cold to, thanks.

Should I look for a different job? Unfair tactics or normal?

If you don't like it leave. Nobody is holding a gun to your head. Sounds to me like it's not for you but that's just my opinion. In this economy however it would help to have a backup....if you don't need one then leave...at least give some notice. I left a good paying job four months ago that I was good at but my bosses stopped respecting me because the more I worked the harder they pushed me and the harder they pushed me the better I did and I got no breaks when I needed one. I was in a situation where I could afford to leave and I left because I was so miserable. Four months later I'm doing something totally different and am completely happy. Life is too short to be miserable but do keep in mind it's a tough economy out there.

Immediate remedy for a swollen throat?

idk if i have a cold or what, but i have a lump in my throat making it difficult to swollow and impossible to sleep because its effecting my breathing. is there anything i can do rite now to relieve it to any degree? dont mention medication crap because i need something now please!!!!

Can animals have a sexuality?

I am being serious here I know I probably sound like an idiot but in all seriousness, do animals like dogs and cats have a sexuality. Can they be gay or bi? Because I have never seen a gay dog or a gay cat or a gay bird or anything. I know like I said I probably sound stupid but do they? Thanks

Help with my Scaphoid Injury?

I had a bone graft scaphoid surgery with screw fixation does in January 2011. It took me about 60 days to recover but the bone healed completely. However there is still a little bit of pain when I move my wrist in certain ways such as moving it backward or when attempting a push up. The doctor told me to do physiotherapy. My question is, is there anything I can do at home that can help me subside the pain in my wrist?

How to I relieve period pains? Please help?

BANANAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAZ unless u believe that its animal cruelty which would be kinda weird...... :D

Medical Q - Sometimes when I stand up I feel lightheaded, also I think I have a circulation problem..?

For a while sometimes when I sleep or laydown on my side I wake up with my arm numb and it takes a minute to “wake up.“ Sometimes my last two fingers curl in like I saw on Dr. Oz also. How normal is this and what can I do to correct, help or relieve this?

I just been burnt in an accident and mostly its secondary degree burns and some parts i had skin grafts?

because i had 3rd degree burns and i want to know what kind of food i should eat to help my skin heal up better.

Who would be the best canidate to run for president? We need someone capable willing to take responsibility.?

Someone who would clean up this country. corruption, unemployment, graft, lobbyist, monopolies, in general straighten the country out. Eliminate unemployment welfare & return America to a working class country again. Someone to stand up & work with congress to reduce our national debt & work out a responsible solution to spending money we do not have. Someone who would put this nation back in order before attempting to organize someone else's mess. We have a sufficent mess right here without looking for another to cleanup at the present time. Thankyou for your response.

Is there a way to not look high after smoking weed?

I mean this in all seriousness. Like a way to reverse how my eyelids get a little puffy. Also would a lot of exercise make it not noticeable that I smoke a lot of bud?

I'm having gum graft surgery tomorrow and I'm scared/nervous about the pain!?

I would not think it really hurts but hey its different in people once its over and done with you'll be laughing

Girls, how supportive would you be if your boyfriend wanted to have foreskin restoration surgery?

Say, he didn't like being circumcised and he wanted to have the plastic surgery some men choose to get where they graft skin from somewhere else over the head of the penis. Would you support his choice?

Should I get cosmetic surgery for burn marks on my face?

well, even though you have relationship problems cosmetic surgery is a huge stepping stone and yeah it might cost a lot, i mean don't get me wrong here but if you really think that surgery will help you with your social life then i guess you should do it, but the big "IF" question always pops up and says "what if, doing something about yourself because you think its affecting things other than the things you worry most about i mean your 23 and thats still really young and who knows you might find a girl that will love you and your scars?" i might personaly might not be the best choice to listen, maybe because i usally ask things and listen to those people but you know if i kinda sorta maybe not a whole lot but gave you some stuff to think on then hey, glad to help, but if i didnt help you even in the slightest possible factorable way then sorry for wasting your time to have you read this short story about what I think.

In all seriousness, why are only Sarah Palin's emails being reviewed?

Shouldn't this be something that happens to politicians who were/are under ethics investigations like Charlie Rangel, Barney Frank or Maxine Waters?

My friends boyfriend and friends ex keeps flirting with me.,,what should I do?

I'm in sixth form and will be 17 next month. I have never been kissed and am extremely shy. Just had cancer but no chemo etc only surgery as I was very lucky. I have lots of scars and skin grafts on my hand because of this which I am too afraid to show. Anyway, one of my best friends - ellie went out with a guy called Dale and she was very confrontational and only dated for a month but she was gutted. He is now going out with my close friend Becky who is like me (quite shy) and she liked Dale for a long time. However, he does have a reputation but he had started to flirt with me o social networking sites which Becky or Ellie don't have. I knew him before he came to my sixth form and he has been flirting with me since I said hi to him one day. I know he is a typical flirt and it probably means nothing but what do I do? I haven't been flirting back but I have been replying to him. However, I LOVE the attention he gives me as I don't get any and I haven't even had my first kiss. Should I tell him to back off or do what I want to do for a change and live my life for once? What should I do? If I flirt ellie will kill me as 'no exes allowed' but she has also been with LOADS of guys. Shall get some excitement?

I have a sore throat, I have been feeling a bit dizzy and tired over the past few days?

About three days ago, I started having a sore throat, I started guessing I would probably go under a flu. But then I never had any nose congestion or coughing. I only feel dizzy and extenuated when I wake up and that feeling goes on for the whole day. I am not experiencing any loss of appetite, eating does relieve a little bit, including vitamins, except the relief doesn't last. What should I do?

Why do I get so sick on my period?

Hi all, I'm 15 years old and this is my 3rd year on my period. Somehow, I get very nauseous on my period, horrible abdominal cramping and diarrhea (Sorry If I grossed you out). The pain is so severe, that I can barely eat, and I have anemia because of that. I also suffer from PCOS, and I'm a little overweight, but not that bad. What can I do to relieve these symptoms?

Is it normal for my 14 yr old to constantly write peoples names?

My daughter for a few years now has had a habit of keeping several notebooks full of names that she has to write, she doesn't do it always to relieve stress, but says she just has to write them down. When asked if she could stop she replied no. Is this something to be concerned about?

How can anyone who lives in England?

We're British. We are a nation of complainers. Even if there is nothing wrong, we will complain about it!

HELP!! Ice burn on face lasted over a year?

Like an idiot I put ice directly on my chin a few different times to heal a bump I had on it. Now I have had a red chin for over a year. I have tried every natural remedy, every cream there is out there and still no luck. I dont have money to go to the derm. Please someone help it has ruined my self confidence and I dont know what to do Im starting to get depressed. Do you think I should get a skin graft for it? I dont know anything about skin grafts but SOMEONE PLEASE HELP

Skin Graft after Copperhead bite.?

My 11 year old daughter was bitten by a copper head on her left ring finger. After 6 days in the hospital and antivenom she is scheduled for surgery next week for a skin graft. I was wondering what to expect from this surgery.

My group of friends is splitting and I'm torn?

I thank anyone who answers in advanced, this is really complicated and I don't want to make a mistake. I've been friends with a group of people for about 4 years now and they're all really good friends. Lately though, they have been drifting apart into two separate sides and it seems obvious that they will become two groups. I really want to be friends with all of them still, but there's a problem. The first side is a good influence and generally never does anything wrong, but they always judge people and talk about them behind their backs which is something I can overlook I guess, but only because the other side is there to balance it out. They reflect exactly how I was raised. The other side not only has the friends that actually treat me as more of their friend, but also never judge and let people live their lives, something I have always been known to do. This side even includes the girl I like and who everyone says I will end up with eventually. While this side seems much better, they've turned to drugs (not something i judge them for, but my parents are the most judgmental people in the world and if they catch me I'm dead). This side represents more of what my personality is like. If I had the choice, I would go towards the second side, but I was raised so much against it that, I could barely picture myself doing it. Should I man up and just go with it, or stay with the first side ready to blow up in their faces? One last detail, I've been told many times that me and the girl I like are pretty much identical in personality, brains, and especially parents. She has an older brother that can cover for her, but that's something I lack, so I would have trouble keeping this from my parents who are hell bent on the idea that even doing weed once can screw your life up. Please take this with all seriousness.

How can I relieve my cats stress?

I just moved and my cat getting stressed now. She growls whenever I hug or pet her. And she always wants to come out of my room but she has to stay in there when my door is closed because thats where her litter box and food and water are. The first week at the new place she didnt do this. But she startede it about two days ago. She just seems really stressed out. Is there and toys or ways to help her relieve her stress? Please help!

Do vegetibles lose nutrition if saturated in butter?

They don't lose nutrition, they just get covered in butter (Which is high in fat), so they'll have more calories.

I got a few question that I need to know about 2?

Don't really care about most of the questions but here goes, for question 10 i would say your mum is wrong, now I'm not certain but I wouldn't think that that's how it would work... And 13, well while it is possible I doubt it, I think its more likely there putting drugs in food. Don't you think that if they were watching us people would have found out.

Friend's boyfriend keeps flirting with me...what should I do?

u know u make u like any ***** from lasvegas...i consseilllu don't do tht .u like tht ur bf flirtin with anothers girl...!!!!

Gum grafts on six teeth?

I am getting a gum graft on six teeth in two weeks. I am 19 years old. I am absolutely terrified. Anyone who has had this done or knows anything about them, what should I expect?

Why do I keep having these dreams please help me.?

In all seriousness I have dreams multiple ones of my boyfriend leaving me for another girl, or being unfaithful with other girls or just in general bad dreams about him. We have a good relationship and I trust him, I just get insecure at times, so insecure it drives me crazy but I try not to show it. I keep having these dreams, this is no lie. It's the honest truth, I've had multiple multiple dreams, please someone help. give me the best advice possible.

Bruised toenails and need to get back to sports?

I bruised both my big toenails playing soccer with old shoes a few days ago but even after getting new shoes and using them I hurt my right toenail even worse I tried to relieve the pressure off my right one cause it was so bad but both my toenails r blue now and I need to get back to running and then playing soccer on mon. I no both my toenails will prob fall off in a LONG time but I need to start doing sports again what can I do for my toes?

All people and events involved in the civil rights movement?

Here is a very long list that will help you; a href="http://ted.coe.wayne.edu/sse/units/civil.htm" rel="nofollow"http://ted.coe.wayne.edu/sse/units/civil…/a

How to overwinter a self propagated tea rose ?

Ok. So I bought this beautiful rose for my mother for mothers day. It is white with red lipping. I am going to try to propagate it. I know how to do it, I got some great instructions. I was just wondering how to overwinter it due to the fact that they (florist roses) are almost always grown in greenhouses. I am in zone 4. Please give detailed instuctions and any other tidbit you may know about propogating and caring for one of these ( it will not be grafted.) thanks!

Eew why does he want a 3some?

I think it's GROSS. I think sex should only be between 2 people who love each other. My bf brought it up 3 times, and the second time he decided he didn't want anyone touching me, so I was relieved. Then he brought it up again, and even sent me a pic of the guy who wanted to do it with us. First of all, im only 16 and my bf, whose 24, was my first and I don't wanna have sex with a stranger!! The other guy was like 21.. I told him off completely, and then he said he was joking and hasnt talked to me in 3 weeks. I'm not stupid, he was serious. I just feel like if he really doesn't mind watching some other gut go inside me, he doesn't give a f*ck about me. And that's what hurts the most :'( he even asked me to give the other guy head !!! Wtf! :(((

How to relieve my INTENSE back pain?

I'm 21 weeks pregnant and recently I get this intense pain in my lower left side of my back it hurts so bad its hard to put any pressure on my left side I actually collapsed to the floor because of it. Is it normal to have such crazy back pain during pregnancy? and what can I do to help make it feel better??

How can i make my period start like..now **Veryy Weird Question**?

Okk so my Period is 4 days late and my moms getting worried, so she said if my period starts in 3 days She'll let me get my belly button pierced O.O lol but anyway im not sexually active and im not that stressed so i have no clue whats going on..am i carrying Gods Baby !??!?!?! Lol jk but in all seriousness PLEASE HELP !!

Is there a separate covenant for the Gentiles/Christians?

no God made the jew and gentile one in the faith read the first few chapters of ephesians. the unity of all belivers, jew, gentile, slave, and free, we are one in the faith.

What is a long-ish term remedy for heartburn?

Even water doesn't help, it just makes the burn feel worse. I do have tums, so I can keep relieving it temporarily, but that can only go on for so long...

Wishing to be engaged indefinitely?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years and living together for 2 years this month. He's 26 and I'm 23. We are very happy and very serious and talk about marriage and kids all the time. But lately, it's been frustrating when introducing him or talking about him to people who don't know us well and referring to him only as my "boyfriend". That word alone doesn't appropriately quantify our relationship or the seriousness of it all. We're both grad students right now, so we don't have the funds or time to get married - but have talked about doing so in the not too distant future. Before now I haven't pressured because he doesn't have the funds to buy an engagement ring, but I recently found out that I've inherited my grandmother's engagement ring - something so beautiful and special to me - meaning that he doesn't have to buy one if/when he proposes. What I'd really like is just to be engaged indefinitely - and wait to set a date for the wedding until we're both financially ready. I've mentioned the ring to him briefly and my sentiments regarding our status as "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" but really just don't know how to drive this all the way home with him. I need to stir some emotions up in him soon because we are visiting my family in early July and that would be the perfect time for him to ask my mom for it and for them to get it sized for me. Am I being ridiculous? And if not, what's your best advice?

Were you born with a spiritual immune system?

I was born with spiritual immune system that caused me to reject the illusory worldview grafted upon them from birth through social conditioning.

I ran 7 miles last week, and have not been able to run even a half-mile since. Why?

I am a beginning runner (4 weeks). My longest run up to this point was 6 miles. Before my 7 mile run, I was experiencing pain in my calves. I decided to apply topical magnesium (to relieve the pain), and run regardless. I ran my 7 miles @ 6 mph. I figured it was only a mile more. However, my body wanted to quit at 6.5 miles I ran the next quarter mile @ 8 mph, and then my heart began to beat too hard for comfort. So, I slowed to a walk for an eighth, and then sprinted the last eighth. I was pretty exhausted that night. That was expected. However, since this run, I have been unable to even run a half-mile without intense physical pain (more than I experienced after my 7 miles). Is this normal? Is there a reason? If so, is there a solution?

Does using a medical excuse to limit a workout routine make you a wuss?

Definitely not. If you are in pain and your body can't handle it, it isn't your fault you can't do it. If it were you complaining you had a stomach ache when you didn't to sit out, that's a different thing, but it isn't your fault when you're in pain, so take it easy and don't feel bad.

Will someone please explain this too me?

Who's to say that we do have that genetic defect and that humans before that act of incest were very different from us. If everybody on Earth has the same defect, it isn't abnormal.

Has anyone noticed the correllation between cyberpunk and the route our world is taking?

However instead of being blatantly dystopian it is being disguised as enlightened ( In our society anyway ). I was reading through some new material from some rpg I play and the funny thing is, is that it's barely ahead of what we have now in regards to bleeding edge or unethical technology. It introduced bio-drones ( living animals ) that are fused with enhancements that can be remotely controlled for various applications. I had recently read in an article about scientists in the preliminary stages of experimenting with camera technology grafted to flies. Is there ever a stopping point for progress?

How to convince my parents to let me get cosmetic surgery?

I'm 14, and I don't want a nose job, or a boob job. Sure, I think my boobs are small, and my nose big, but I'm fine with that. But one thing that really bothers me is my cheeks. They're really thin, and the left side of my face is extremely off from the other side- No fat whatsoever, just the muscle. I want to get fat grafting done to get larger cheeks and smooth out the sides of my face and make it less narrow. But whenever I ask my parents, they say no and keep on telling me to face reality. I've researched as much as I can, and I understand the risks. I've tried to even let me get a consultation, but they always say the same thing. What can I do to change their opinion?

Did they keep trying Rod Blago?

Illinois has had 2 consecutive Governors who are now convicted Felons. Wow. What a legacy. The mob is alive and well in Ill. Interestingly, Obama is from Ill. Yeah. I;m sure Obama is relieved it is over and Blago got buried without him spilling the beans.

Doctor directed me to take 4 ducolax(5mg)... is there something i can do to relieve horrible cramps?

i am having like random "contractions" and when they happen i am in agony. It feels as if i am having period cramps X10000000. It comes and goes but when it comes i am screaming and crying because it is just horrible. I was sweating so bad i had to strip down to no clothes on the toilet. Is there something I can take to relieve the cramping that wont be bad to take with the laxative?

How serious is surgery on the carotid artery?

My dad needs this surgery and is telling me it's not that serious. My parents don't have a lot of money, and neither do I. A plane ticket will cost me about $400 and I barely have it, an am about to lose my job. But I want to be there for my dad if this is really serious. Does anyone have a sense of how serious this is? He is telling me to save my money in case of bigger health problems in the future, but I'm afraid he is just downplaying the seriousness of his situation. Also I think my mom could use my emotional support since she is alone with him.

What is wrong with me?

for the past couple of days i have been getting the worst cramps in my lower abdomen. I recently got off of my menstrual cycle so that is what I thought the cramps were but they have not stopped. After maybe twenty minutes of this excruciating pain I feel like I really have to relieve myself and when I do, my waste is green. Like neon green. I have no idea what is wrong with me. Can anyone help me please?!

I don't think I'll fall in love again.?

ive had a simmilar situation with a girl... i ****** it up. Dont *** it up, and go to talk to him again

What are the temporary effects of dip tobacco (Why would someone do it)?

I have a friend who dips tobacco. I don't even know exactly what that means. But I wonder why he would do it.. so, like Ibuprofen relieves head aches and pains, what are the temporary effects of dip tobacco? Thanks in advance <3

I'd like to study more about tree grafting.know some helpfull books?

I recommend going to the library, and searching for any books on grafting or propagation. When you find the area, you see that they are all close to each other on the shelves. Grab a big stack, and flip through some. Once that have lots of photographs and diagrams are usually the most helpful. It's a very visual process, and a book that is all text is going to be harder to understand.

In All Seriousness, Without Cheating, How To Gain Points?

Stick to one section that you feel you can answer the question effectively and get the best answer. I answer the entertainment and science and math sections.

How do I stop braces pain without pan reliever?

I need help! I just got braces yesterday and Im not able to swallow pills, not please don't laugh. Its something I just can't do and I tried chewing my pain reliever as I usually do, but then I just made the pain worse. Is there anyway I could relieve the pain without having to swallow pain reliever? Thanks!

Dental bone grafted, is it swelling or something permanent? ?

I had dental bone graft surgery done about 3 weeks ago. The bone was placed in the front of my mouth to be able to place 4 implants in the future and to replace my four front teeth. My concern is, after performing the surgery, and after rest and getting the "major" swelling down, my nose seems a but funny, a little pushed up. Changed how I look completely believe it or not.I'm not sure if this is swelling, and will go away after healing completely, or if it's something permanent? Really concerned and also if I could get some info on how to make this swelling if it is that to go away faster. Any questions you have please let me know. Thanks

How do I relieve stress?

Ok I live with my mom and my stepdad, and I feel like ripping their heads off sometimes because when I try to explain something they say **** like "your arguing" and will ground me, then I yell at them so they will listen to what I have to say, I can't explain something without yelling at them, and I get so mad I want to take a crowbar, and beat their faces in until they cry and listen, how do I relieve stress?

Uncontrollable yawning, shortness of breath what could it be?

For about a week now I have been yawning to clear this heavy feeling on my chess. I yawn or take a deep breath every 2-4 Min and I only feel relieved when I do...Its worse when I lay down. Im 25 and never had health issues so im not sure what it could be. I read on google it could be axseity but shouldnt it go away by now?

Boyfriend Broke up with me unexpectedly and I'm confused?

I believe your dad is rite..... the only way you can get thru to ur boyfriend is by assuring him that there's nothing to be worried about, that he's part of your life whether he likes it or not, you love him and there's nothing in his life that's too complex that you can't handle. (tell him that if he wants to talk things thru) It obvious that he loves you, but he's brain cells have been working over time coming up with negative theories!

Male cat marking while standing in liter box?

My male cat about 2 years old is neutered and has been checked by a vet and cleared for any UTI. We got him a couple months ago and lately he hasn't been squatting while peeing inside his liter box causing it to go on the floor and wall. We have been thinking it is some type of marking/spraying. We do have a lot of stray cats in the neighborhood and it's impossible to prevent him from looking out the windows. We have a stress relieving collar and have been trying the Feliway (sp?) spray and he still insists on doing it. If we don't get a solution to the problem soon it'll be too much for us to handle. Please help?

Recovering from a stomach bug?

Well it may be a bug but that usually goes away couple of days. If you can get to drugstore get Charcoal caps and they do help with sickness feeling. But if this continues I would see a Gastroenterlogist (stomach) Dr. or regular Dr. and see what he thinks. It is also the symptoms of blocked intestine do not freak out it is just a possible reason Just eat light and take Charcoal and go from there

Knee surgery, Please answer!?

I had a very precise knee surgery about two weeks ago. It was a complete cartilage transplant, three broken bones on my knee, and a bullet size hole was filled. The doctor said it went very well. He said not to smoke, because my graft may not attach. Is that true? and another question is how long before i can swim, and have my life back. i just graduated high school last saturday, on crutches of course. I just want a few details on the recovery, like swimming, healing time, pressure,etc. any answers would be greatly appreciated.

I'm useless and my moms upset with me..?

I am anorexic and I have depression and an anxiety disorder. I've been going to therapy, seeing doctors, and overall, I'm really resource and time consuming. My dads been out of town for two weeks and I have a 13 and a 3 year old brothers so I'm tryin to help out around the house by cleaning, cooking, and doing other chores. My 13 year old brother watches my 3 year old brother and gets lots of thanks and praise. When I help, I get thanks but I just feel unappreciated and really guilty all the time. I try to relieve my moms stress but I'm not good enough. I tried talking to my mom about how I feel and she said 90% of her time and resources go into me and she's overwhelmed by me and says I'm mentally distorted. She says that the things I do to "help" are just things that should come natural when you're a part of a family and that I should do those things automatically. She says that she never knows what she's gonna get when she talks to me cuz I might be angry or moody and she feels like she never says anything right to me because I'm so sensitive. For the last 2 hours I've been crying so much and I feel so useless and guilty I want to die.. I'm never going to be good enough and helpful because I'm so high maintaince and difficult to my mom. I hate myself and I wish I could be a good person. I try so hard but it's never enough :'( please help me!!! :(

Unusual blooms on azalea?

I have an odd azalea blooming in front of my house. It has clear bright pink flowers and striped pale pink & white flowers. At first I thought someone had grafted two different azaleas together, but the two different colored flowers grow on the same branches! I have photographic proof. Has anyone ever heard of or seen such an azalea?

Questions about fever blisters?

There is a new pill out that I've been taking for fever blisters, it's called The Canker Spanker and it works like nothing I've ever used. It gets rid of sores you currently have and it prevents new ones from forming. You may really want to check them out online.

Is the Osama Bin Laden killing Obama's dog and pony show?

What about quantitative easing, corruption, progressive advances, entitlement disaster, ever expanding federal government, out of control IRS, quid pro quo, cesspool of public education, nanny state, assault on the 2nd amendment, graft, diminished liberty, trampling of the constitution, illegal immigration, ... Sheesh!... I could be here all day.

What should I do about this problem with this guy?

Hello, everyone. There was a guy I was seeing for a very brief time a few months ago, but I broke up with him because I was unhappy in the relationship. He was controlling, convinced he was more intelligent than everyone else, and very mocking. When I ended things, I felt relieved that I no longer had to deal with him and got over him real quick. However, recently, my mind keeps returning to him and how angry he had made me feel at times. I even had a dream with him in it; he kept stalking me, and there was no way to escape. Have any of you ever experienced anything like this? Why are all these bitter feelings rising up now? Your help would be appreciated.

I tore out part of my DUSOLVABLE INTERNAL stitches by accident, is this a problem?

I had ACL reconstruction surgery using a hamstring graft 3 weeks ago and for the past week I've been picking at this thing that I thought was a scab that was located on the top of my lower incision. I finally got it out today and this clear string came with it. I later realized it was not scab that I had been picking at but the knot where the surgeonhad tied my stitches, it was on the outside of my leg. I took that out and had 1-3 cm of suture material come out too. then a little tiny bit if blood and a clear fluid. I put a band aid on it. is it worth a call to my surgeon or physical therapist seeing how we are doing physical therapy in a dirty public pool now. is infection going to be a problem? is it going to still heal properly? my surgery was on 3/18/2011. thank you

How serious is surgery on the carotid artery?

My dad needs this surgery and is telling me it's not that serious. My parents don't have a lot of money, and neither do I. A plane ticket will cost me about $400 and I barely have it, an am about to lose my job. But I want to be there for my dad if this is really serious. Does anyone have a sense of how serious this is? He is telling me to save my money in case of bigger health problems in the future, but I'm afraid he is just downplaying the seriousness of his situation. Also I think my mom could use my emotional support since she is alone with him.

What to expect after bone grafting for top of mouth?

The bone in the top of my mouth has deteriorated and the specialist needs to do a bone grafting where he pulls out all my top teeth and rebuilds the bone. Then I'll have a retainer-like plate on the top of my mouth that he said will feeling like I'm gagging and there is going to be lots of swelling. I'm a nervous wreck. Has anyone had this done? What can I expect? Will there be a lot of pain and for how long?

Do you think he is serious about us?

Been dating for five months now and will meet the parents this month, but have not met the friends yet. Should I be concerned about this? How can I tell if he is serious? he is moving soon and he could move close to me or not. Guess if he moves close to me i will know his level of seriousness and if not then it will be obvious...any thoughts?

I am still bleeding from losing my virginity yesterday?

My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time yesterday. It was my first time but not his. He said it would be better to go real fast to get the pain over with so it was very sore at the time and I bled quite a lot. The thing is I am still in a lot of pain and still bleeding today? I took a bath because I read that it would be a good thing to do if you're sore from sex, and it relieved the pain for a while, but now there's still blood, and I feel scared about doing it again. He said he wants to have sex again tomorrow but I think I'm still going to be in pain and I guess it will hurt more the next time especially if he goes fast again. I really don't want to do it again but I don't think it should be hurting like this much still. What should I do? Thanks

Marriage? Children? Can you you help me?

I am 24 years old. My boyfriend is 28 and we've been dating for over 2 and a half years, but I've known him since high school.My boyfriend is at that point in this life where he has a really good job. He has a nice house. He's financially stable and he seems to be going very far in life. But, he's also at that point in his life where he wants to get married and eventually have children. But I, on the other hand, am still in school and I don't feel that we're ready to get married. Even though our relationship is golden and wonderful and fantastic, I just don't think we're ready. After all, marriage is a BIG DEAL because you're promising to yourself, GOD, your future spouse and all those that attend that your wedding that you will do right by each other and be with one another for better or for worst of anything and everything...That takes a great deal of commitment. It's not that either one of us can't commit to each other. It's just that I feel as though..my boyfriend and I's relationship is like a cabinent where the nuts and bolts are screwed in but some of the shelves of the cabinent are not as tightly screwd as others. Hopefully that made sense. Now, I know that every marriage has it's kinks and lose shelves but I WANT OUR shelves to be firmly secured from the ground up. Like I said, it's not a commitment issue nor a trust or loyalty issue. It's just that I don't think our relationship is 100% ready to carried out the ways of marriage. If I could give our relationship a percentage then I'd say we're about 77% ready for marriage but that 23% is just not fully confined and confirmed. I try explaining this to my boyfriend because he's proposed to me TWICE but I just dont think he understands. He has also bought up the fact of having kids and I LOVE KIDS. If I'm going to be a pediatric dentist then I have to love kids...But in all seriousness, I really do love kids to death, but I don't want to have kids. I don't want to tell him that because if you could only see the look on his face when he plays with his nephew or his god son and the joy he gets...you wouldn't tell him either. I am actually contemplating the idea of getting my tubes tied and not telling him so that way whenever the time comes for children it will kinda seem like it's his fault, ya know?? I know it's wrong but... I guess I just need some advice from a you guys. I can totally understand where he's coming from with wanting to get married have have kids. I mean he's 28 years old and he'll be 29 in 2 months so he's not exactly getting younger but I wanna wait at least another 5 years before even getting engaged and at least 3 years after the enagagement before we get married. And as I said about the kids, I don't want any so the tubes might be tied by the time the enagement and marriage even happen.....Do you guys think I'm crazy or over doing it? HELP ME, SOMEBODY!!! I talked to my pastor. I prayed. I talked to my parents and of course I've talked to my boyfriend about everything except the tubes being tied...SOMEONE GIVE MY SOME ADVICE!!! PLEASE!! This is so stressful.

What should I tell my friend?

Ok so on her Ipod touch, I recommened a app that you can voye on pictures and talk to people through it if you wanted. I thought this was appropriate for her because I always go under the pet and animal column and answer questions on those which isnt bad at all. But I figured out that people can post questions like are you into me, or do you think I'm sexy and such. My friend is more immature than me and younger as well and when on her Ipod (she was watching tv and gave me permission to try out her apps.) so I went on that app I had suggested because she had posted a picture of herself as a profile picture and when I warned her she shouldn't post her picture she ignored me and I didn't know what to do so I decided to switch the profile picture with one of her dogs and told her how cute it was which may have very temperarly solved it. But then I saw she had a chat opened with the question titled: Are you in to girls? She isnt lesbian (she has a boyfriend) but she pretends to be lesbian and talks to her and they talk about masterbating and stuff and it ends having this 16 year old girl asking her if she wantrd to swap photos of the female private part. She agreed and thwy were going to do it on a different app and idk if she did... So this has gotten too far and I know her parents dont know but if I told them I could lose my friendship with her and she may do worse. What should I do? She doesn't know yet that I saw that... I want to talk to her about it and have her understand the seriousness of this but Idk how I can comfortably. What should I do about this?

Should I learn to play guitar or Martial Arts?

I have always loved the way the guitar sounds and have always been interested in it. Im just wondering if I should learn martial arts since people in the past say I would be a great fighter. Plus I love fighting, its a great way to stay in shape and relieve stress. I just don't know because I want to do both. The problem with that though is that my schedule already pretty full and can only fit in one. I asked my parents but they just say "Do whatever one that will make you happy." Which is nice of them but not helpful. So will someone help please?

What's an afterlife????????????

In all seriousness, I just don't know!! (insert frustrated cow-like wail here). My friend said it was something like in the bible where after you die you go to heaven. What happens in the afterlife? Where are you supposed to go?? Is it the same place for everybody??

Should I get cosmetic surgery for burn marks on my face?

Yes I think it is worth it. You are not fixing your nose or chin, which is easily overlooked. Which is more important your face or a 52ich TV? I see a lot of people spending on material things. I can't think of a better thing for you to "invest" your money in!

EXTREME PAIN AFTER WART REMOVAL BY FREEZING?

i got some warts frozen off at the doctors at 2.30 this arvo. i have quite a big one on my little toe and the pain is almost unbearable! nothing i do can relieve it. I have taken 2 panadol at 6pm and it did not work. i am 38 weeks pregnant so i cant take much for the pain. Just wondering what i should do or try to help with the pain. :(

What to do to relieve constipation caused from taking opiates?

ive been taking oxycodone due to a recent surgery i had a week ago. and i have become very constipated. i haven't made a bowel movement i a whole week when i use to go every 2 days. what should i do. should i just take a laxative. i cant stop taking the oxycodone because the pain some my surgery is too severe

What are the Laws or rights behind this issue?

two young girls were adopted by a naturalized US citizen a couple years ago in their british foreign country. as far as i heard they was brought illegally to a U.S. territory and the are living there for several years going to school, but the cant live proper lives because of their lack of legal documents . Wat can be done to correct this situation!..anyone have REAL legal advice on this issue? PLEASE HELP...seriousness needed HERE they are on the verge of graduation from college and a few months from being adults!

GIRLS PLZ HELP!!!! why is she being such a b*tch?

i told her i liked her and never made a move. after i told her, she wouldnt talk to me but she would always smile at me whenever i looked at her, i would also overhear her saying that she had broken up with her bf that barely anyone knew about....was she trying to show that i couldnt get her? and this went on for a week, then she completely started ignoring me and would sometimes talk to me, we had a small conversation about this hsitty teacher, and trying to make me jealous by flirting with other guys in front of me, and she randomly had called me by my nickname that she had taken away that month but then stopped becuase i didnt respond surprised, one day, i stared i turned around and we stared at each other for like a second and she just turns to this other guy and gives him a flirty face. this went on for a month or two. Then we had a group assignment and she kept insisting on me being in her group, and i just joined so that i can finish faster. Then one day, she just messages me that she needed help fixing her phone, which i was foolish enough to do, then the next day she was kissing this guy in front of me with no regard that i was there and she knew she was hurting me and they werent even goin out yet, then she just comes up to me all nice and crap and talks about how her phone was broken and was all nice to me, and she would call me by my nickname that she had given me and would be the only person to call me that but had taken it away during that month, then she would try to talk to me by rubbing her hand all the way down my arm, then the teacher takes my drum sticks away and she yelled out 'aww poor jorgie'...the nickname she gave me, then she moved to the seat in front of me and started stretching back and putting her hair in my face, but then i would ignore her and she would get mad and threatened to delete me from her blackberry messenger, then she brought up my status that i had on bbm and started laughing...'**** blackberry' and she asked why i put that while cracking up and in all seriousness i said 'cuz its true' and she got kindapissed and put her head down and i guess got sad cuz she stopped talking to just about everyone then the next time i saw her, they we're officially going out, and then she started giving me the cold shoulder again and only talked to me when she needed me, but then we were watching a movie in class and again, she moved to the seat in front of me and did the same hair and stretching thing, and she turned around a few times to ask me about the movie and then she turned around and saw me on my phone and said 'what are you doing' i acted like i didnt hear her and i said 'what?' and she just turned around saying 'never mind'...what does she want plz help!!! Then, on the second to last day of school, we kept catchin eachother's eyes for like a second then she just held it and gave me a wass nod and i returned it and we kept nodding back and forth. Then i put up my phone for sale, and she is in love with it, and she just texts 'gimme ur bold <3' as if we were bestfriends...then on the last day of school, the only thing she said was 'wassup jorge' and i replied like a normal person would...'hey'. she never brought up the message, but could she be pissed at that, we're both 15

Should I still hang out with her?

You need to clear her that you have your own life to live and that if she wants herself to always be treated as a star then you wouldn't hang out with her..............but if she wants to treat you as a friend.i.e,equal to her.....................then,maybe you'll hang on..............

I lacerated my head and got 5 staples near my hairline. The back of my head is numb and itches.?

I had a vasovagal episode ( fainted ) and split my head needing 5 staples near my hairline. The actual lacerated area was not really that painful although having the staples put in with no numbing was fun. Having them come out was worst but it's over with. My question is that the back right side of my head is and has been since the injury, numb and itchy. Sometimes I have to pull my hair to relieve this. I'm wondering if I should be concerned or if this is normal, possibly I did nerve damage and it will take time to heal? If it were the area that I split open it would make more sense to me.

History help history help history help?

A lot more people would be willing to help you if you attempt to answer them and ask to have your answers checked.

Will self propogated (ungrafted) tea roses bloom the same as grafted ones(propogated from a florist rose)?

I understand that florist roses are tea roses that have had a lot of fertilizer dumped on them and that they mainly grow in tropical locations. My question is will they be fine if I propogate one from a long stemmed florist rose, like will their flowers be normal tea rose sized instead of ugly tiny little semi double things? Also will the root systen be substantial enough? thanks for all the information and throw in any tidbits that you know about propogation of florist roses also

Can't focus, can't function. How do I get her out of my head?

you should write a book entitled "Gotta get over it" because you do, all she seemed to want is to have sex in your story, if you didn't for some "special reason" that would just make it super akward that you couldn't preform

Where can I buy brand new packets of the original pokemon cards?

ebay...but itll be pricey...its fifth gen. now, so those are massive collectors gems. And i always liked the Jungle set myself.

Relieving And Preventing Foot Pain?

My husband works sanitation at a factory, 12 - 16 hours a day. He is constantly standing, wearing big rubber boots. He recently bought some cheap insoles from Wal-Mart hoping that they would help and they do, but not as much as we were hoping. Any advice on the best insoles or things he could do at home to make his feet feel better? It is causing pain in his feet, legs, back, and neck. Any ideas would be useful. Thanks in advance!

Got friend to end his engagement... How do I get him to cheer up?

Well, you did the right thing, I wish my brother had listened but now hes been damned to be ****** in the *** for the rest of his days by a raging *****. Go party it up or something.

I really really like her, does she like me in all seriousness, females only. . . . .?

im 15, im from scotland, i met this girl 2 weeks ago and i absolutly adore her, we talked alot on facebook and we went to party on saturday, i took her aside from a group of friends and looked right in her eyes (scared as hell btw! ) and said " i think your beautiful and im starting to like you " she called me very cute and the sweetest guy shes ever met, ill see her on friday, how should i act towards her ? and when im with her. she said to my best mate that she would kiss me but she doesnt know if she would go out with me cos she dont know me that well,, ( also, does she like it when i start all the conversations, because it makes me feel like an actual stalker, although we go on to have very good conversations.) should i ask her to go on walk or something to just talk ?can i have long answers, i appriciate it. thanks x

What should I do about my 16 yr. Old brother, relieving stress and kind of getting it everywhere?

My 16 yr. Brother, as any 16 yr old, likes to relieve stress (if you catch my drift). My twin and I have been finding stale, white outlined stains on pillow cases, bed sheets, and the couch and the couch pillows. Pretty much everywhere. I don't just want to simply walk up to him and tell him about it cause I know he would be embarrassed. I just find it very gross that does that where everyone sits and sleeps. I would like serious answers and know how to get him to know I know and how to do it somewhere else and do it with like a designated towel or something and thoroughly clean up and sanitize afterwards.

Jehovah's Wittnesses...I've Got A Dillema For You?

The jehovah's witnesses were created by a secret society called skull and bones. They are almost satanic. But they may be the real religion

Does Justin Bieber:Never Say Never (Director's Fan Cut) come out on DVD?

Yes it comes out with the Never Say Never D.V.D if you want directors fan cut then don't get it on Blu-Ray or Red Box it won't be on there is only on his D.V.D's those came out a few weeks ago.

Anime help! Please?!?

I want an anime with ROMANCE! has to have happy ending. must b english dubbed. i like action, seriousness, and fantasy. but i also like comedy. i prefer longer NO SAD OR BITTERSWEET!!!. ive seen a few animes, so heres a list off the top of my head:

Mosquito bite swollen and painful?

My boyfriend was bitten last night by a mosquito. He is very susceptible to them, I've never seen someone get bit more often than him. Today he woke up and one of the bites is massive. It is bigger than a itched and aggravated mosquito bite usually is. It is extremely large, forming an obvious lump on his arm. It is red and irritating to him. He said his arms feels "heavy". We have put every anti-itch ointment we have on him and nothing is working. I know Benadryl is suggested but he seems immune to it. What can I do to relieve the pain for him?

I just don't want to socialize?

If you are perfectly fine with not socializing that is okay, whatever makes you happy! It sounds like you are a very smart girl and some teenagers can't relate to that. No, there is nothing wrong with you. If you do wish to make teenage friends, a good way to get started is making a Facebook account and sending friend requests to the people you know. Hope it helps!

Problems with jewelry for my tongue piercings?

I have a venom piercing (two tongue piercings side by side). I went to the dentist today and found out that my left tongue ring has caused a lot of recession to my gums and I will most likely need graft surgery to replace my damaged gums. At this point, I have two options. I could find a different kind of jewelry that doesn't damage my gums, like perhaps a long labret stud, or I could just take my tongue rings out and let the holes close. I've had them for two years now I'm really disappointed about taking them out. Do you have any ideas about how to keep my holes open or what kind of jewelry would work without having a ball on the bottom? I was thinking of either a flat bottomed labret stud or a bioplast tongue retainer. The problem with the retainer is that the O-ring or rubber band, is a huuuuge pain the ***. Any ideas or places I could find a long enough labret stud?

Could someone explain the Avenger of Blood in the bible?

The one authorized under the law of Israel to avenge the blood of one who had been killed was called the “avenger of blood” or go‧ʼel′ and was the nearest male relative of the one slain. (Num. 35:19) Since the nearest of kin would be personally involved with the one slain, it is understandable that he would have a keen interest in fulfilling this responsibility, even rising up in the heat of anger to avenge the life of his kinsman. If the murderer was known, then atonement for the blood of the slain man must be swift and certain. “In case there should happen to be a man hating his fellowman, and he has lain in wait for him and has risen up against him and struck his soul fatally and he has died, and the man has fled to one of [the cities of refuge], the older men of his city must then send and take him from there, and they must deliver him into the hand of the avenger of blood, and he must die. Your eye should not feel sorry for him, and you must clear away the guilt of innocent blood out of Israel, that you may have good

To just my contacts, I have a question?

Well your serious answers to serious questions are great, but I think you do need to tone it down when people ask questions that are jokes, because I actually did think you were being completely serious. You should joke around, too.

How much does it cost to install disc brakes?

I bought the Schwinn Graft Pro and has front disc and rear V brakes. It doesn't have a 6 hole hub on the back but looks like there is spacing to allow for it. How much would it cost to install disc on the rear? I would probably have professionally installed as I am not educated enough to do this.

If the entire book of James is written to "The 12 Tribes scattered abroad" how can they be done away with?

The jest is that they were scattered, but he promised their return in these the last days. They are returning. The Gentiles are first the Jews are last, reversed from previous periods. And many of the people out there do not know they have some of the blood if Israel in their veins. Most are from the tribe if Ef-rem (Ephraim) whos "branches run over the wall" in his blessing by Jacob.

What are some things that can help me relieve stress?

I get stressed out very easily and I just cannot seem to relax..what are some things that I can do to help me cope with stress easier? Thanks in advance :)

Does using a medical excuse to limit workout routines make you a wuss?

No i don't believe that a medical condition that inhibits your ability to workout in the same manner as before you were diagnosed makes you a "wuss." You have no control over it and therefore you are not a wuss. If you were purposefully no exercising then you have reason to be called derogatory terms but this is not an instance such as that.

When god takes a giant crap?

When god needs to relieve himself on the toilet, is that the cause of meteorites and asteroids? I'd imagine if he was constipated and it all came out in one chunk it would send a big asteroid hurdling toward earth. Likewise if he had diarrhea wouldn't it send meteor showers to bombard the earth?

Advice regarding stray cat,please.especially if u have experience with semi-feral.?

i have 2 friendly cats.a neighbor moved and left behind a siamese mix.we fed him for 3 months and finally caught him and took him in.he loves our other cats and they love him..we are going to keep the new cat,indoor only like our first two.heres the problem.sam the new cat has an appointment to be neutered/get shots this thurs.but he does not like to be handled,and he hisses and is threatening when we try to pick him up.i would like to have proper vet visit for him,but he is a large scary tom and i am afraid my husband and i will get torn up trying to catch him.we had to use a trap to get him inside and i think he will be too smart to fall for that again.his urine does not smell strong,unlike most intact males,and he goes in the box and does not spray.i wonder if he has been fixed already-cant get close enough to find out.we dont mind that he doesnt like being handled.he gets along well with our kitties,and he was not looking too good on the streets.we are glad to give him a home, even if he would rather interact with other cats,not us.he is not aggressive unless u try to pick him up or carry him.he will let himself be petted sometimes.but he does get agrgessive if handled and messed with too much.so,do we try to wrestle him into the carrier thurs morning,put it off awhile,or just not neuter him? i worry that intact males are prone to blockages, however.i am not trying to get out of a vet visit,i just dont want to get hurt,my mom was bit by a cat once and had to go to the hospital it was pretty bad.we could not leave him outside,other cats were beating him up ,he seemed miserably unhappy.except when handled a lot,he seems content and happy at our house and relieved to have fresh food,water and a nice place to live.so-do i try the vet thurs or not? hints or tips for dealing with fearful,semi-feral cats,appreciated...

My parent's told me they are sending me to a mental health ward tomorrow.?

It's a hollow threat. Asperger's in neither a form of Mental Illness nor of retardation. Add to this that you are a legal adult and your parents simply cannot follow through with their threat!

Is it wise to take the pins out, after ankle surgery?

I had major ankle surgery 4-2-10, and in the last 5 mo. the pins holding the bone graft, feel, like they have moved, I did get them out, last wk-, I wished I knew if I did the right thing or not?

Whats the best time for grafting mango trees in south Florida ?

My dad has some mango trees he likes to grow in our back yard and he wants to know whats the best time to graft mango trees where we live and by "time" he means like what months Pleaseeee Help asap Thankss XOXO.

Are all Hass/Fuerte avocado trees sold at nursery grafted?

I want to know if a nursery (Home Depot, Lowes, etc.) labeled say Hass or Fuerte Avocado tree, does it mean it has been grafted?

Im scared an need help?

okay so me an my boyfriend have been together a little over a year now. we are sexual active an we almost always used condoms. well there was a few slip ups an now im 8 weeks pregnant. my parents dont know his do. he is 21 an im 17. im not on the pill. well we have been fighting an broke up an he said he didnt want nothing to do with my mistake what should i do.please help in all seriousness an nothing rude. thank you.

Irritated Eye .. PLEASE HELP?

Do you wear contacts? That might be why, I wear them too and that same thing happens to my eye a LOT. Buy a solution that is comfortable with your eyes. I know it mightnot help that much but it's all i got. Hope it helps :) a little :)

What does this nightmare mean?

I had this weird nightmare where I saw a dog outside in my garden attacking and raping my puppy. I ran outside with a bat for protection, it tried coming at me but I took a swing and hit the dog in the face which either seemed to kill it or knock it out cold. Then I ran to to my puppy and she was covered in blood, a horrible state. I was so sad. I don't remember much after that, think I woke up soon after. I was just relieved it was all just a dream and she's fine. Does it mean anything?

How can you know when you are stress free?

Well I'm not a doctor but when you're stress free it's the best feeling you've ever felt in a long time. Nothing bad is on your mind and you're positive about everything. I wish I was stress free every day.

How can I make my scars from a skin graft go away?

How can I make my scars from a skin graft go away? These scars aren't going away after five years. They are very ugly. One day I want to hold the hand of the guy I like.

Acid reflux solution?

I've been having annoying heartburn for the past week. I decided to test something out to stop the acid from reaching the top torso. I tied a belt under my breast bone and what do you no, relief. My question is: is this a good idea or am I going to cause myself internal damage. A second question: any recommendations to relieve the burn. Thanks in advance.

Mosquito bite swollen and painful?

My boyfriend was bitten last night by a mosquito. He is very susceptible to them, I've never seen someone get bit more often than him. Today he woke up and one of the bites is massive. It is bigger than a itched and aggravated mosquito bite usually is. It is extremely large, forming an obvious lump on his arm. It is red and irritating to him. He said his arms feels "heavy". We have put every anti-itch ointment we have on him and nothing is working. I know Benadryl is suggested but he seems immune to it. What can I do to relieve the pain for him?

What do Liverpool fans think about possibly getting...?

Jack you know he is destined for Arsenal why would Wenger pay �15-�20 mil for Cahill or even �12-�15 mil for Samba when they can get Scott Dann for maybe �5 mil......lol Will Owen hargreaves get that second chance at Arsenal....free is Wengers favourite number.lol

Any anime like ghost hunt?

try kaidan restaurant - a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kaidan_restaurant" rel="nofollow"http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kaidan_rest…/a

Fruit tree grafting compatibility?

Can you graft a cherry to a peach, or an apple to a pear tree. Is there a chart of what trees (or root stock) accept the scion wood of other varieties or species?

Why are women so subservient, submissive and downtrodden in eastern cultures?

I'm originally from Bangladesh, a small country in South Asia. Actually, my parents are from there. I was born in Italy. But my roots are from there. I went there a month ago to see my sick granddad. And I am sickened by how the men their treat their women. They treat them like cattle and property. It is a highly patriarchal society. The women cook, clean and look after the children and don't work. 99% of women there are traditional housewives who bow down to their husbands and kiss their feet. My mom however, is a doctor. She is one of the very few women who work. But she still cooks, cleans, looks after my little brother and works. My dad is unemployed at the moment. He doesn't do anything. He just eats, sleeps and goes to the toilet. He occasionally helps my mom. And my parents live in Australia, which is a western society. Sometimes, I wish I could teach my dad a MAJOR lesson. But how? I honestly don't understand how my mom could bear all this. My dad is not that bossy unlike the other Bangladeshi men. He does listen to my mom and he DOES what my mom tells him to do. But he just has a know it all attitude that annoys me. Well, anyway this isn't about my family. It's about my auntie and other women who go through the pain. My auntie is among the 1% who go to work in Bangladesh. She told me her everyday scenario from first thing in the morning is waking up, making breakfast for husband and then apparently getting scolded and getting divorce threats from her husband for making a crap breakfast, then going to work in a crammed bus, and then taking bs from sexist boss. She told me her boss teases and makes fun of her for working because she is a female. Then, after a long & tiring day at work she goes home again to be yelled at by her husband. Her husband accuses her of coming home so late! WTF!!! This is SO messed up! I mean her husband eats FREE, doesn't help around the house at ALL, doesn't work and yet he yells at her for working late so that HE gets his daily bread! And my auntie is actually a housewife. She has to work because her husband either can't find a job or is TOO lazy to work! And the rest of the 99% of women don't even get the chance to work because if they work they APPARENTLY will become DISOBEDIENT to their husbands and fathers and become too smart. They stay home and lick their husbands feet and tolerate their BS. The average Bangladeshi woman is dependent on their male relatives their whole entire life, from birth till death. From birth till maturity she is dependent upon her father. After that she is married off & is therefore is dependent upon her husband. And when her husband is old and retires she is dependent upon her son (if she has one). In marriages, the girl has to go live in her husband's parents house where she serves her husband & in laws, especially her mother and father in law. After that she is pressured by husband & in-laws to give birth to a son. I have seen guys go as far as divorcing their wives and marrying new ones because their ex wives have failed to give birth to a son. The women have no say in public matters and society related issues. They are are usually told to shut up because they "don't know anything". I am horribly disgusted with this disgusting attitude towards women and relieved at the same time because I am lucky enough to not be in their shoes. I want to know why these women are so subjugated and oppressed. I really don't understand. Thank u to people who have decided to read my long and rather boring rant! It really feels good to let out all of that frustration!

How do you know that you're gay?

Is there any fullproof way to know that you're gay, or is it just simply if you're a boy attracted to boys, you're gay...? Just curious. And no stupid answers, please; i don't want some smart *** remark about justin bieber, i want seriousness, folks. THanks!

GILS PLZ HELP!!!! why is she being such a b*tch?

i told her i liked her and never made a move. after i told her, she wouldnt talk to me but she would always smile at me whenever i looked at her and this went on for a week, then she completely started ignoring me and would sometimes talk to me, we had a small conversation about this hsitty teacher, and trying to make me jealous by flirting with other guys in front of me, and she randomly had called me by my nickname that she had taken away that month but then stopped becuase i didnt respond surprised, one day, i stared i turned around and we stared at each other for like a second and she just turns to this other guy and gives him a flirty face. this went on for a month or two. Then we had a group assignment and she kept insisting on me being in her group, and i just joined so that i can finish faster. Then one day, she just messages me that she needed help fixing her phone, which i was foolish enough to do, then the next day she was kissing this guy in front of me with no regard that i was there and she knew she was hurting me and they werent even goin out yet, then she just comes up to me all nice and crap and talks about how her phone was broken and was all nice to me, and she would call me by my nickname that she had given me and would be the only person to call me that but had taken it away during that month, then she would try to talk to me by rubbing her hand all the way down my arm, then the teacher takes my drum sticks away and she yelled out 'aww poor jorgie'...the nickname she gave me, then she moved to the seat in front of me and started stretching back and putting her hair in my face, but then i would ignore her and she would get mad and threatened to delete me from her blackberry messenger, then she brought up my status that i had on bbm and started laughing...'**** blackberry' and she asked why i put that while cracking up and in all seriousness i said 'cuz its true' and she got kindapissed and put her head down and i guess got sad cuz she stopped talking to just about everyone then the next time i saw her, they we're officially going out, and then she started giving me the cold shoulder again and only talked to me when she needed me, but then we were watching a movie in class and again, she moved to the seat in front of me and did the same hair and stretching thing, and she turned around a few times to ask me about the movie and then she turned around and saw me on my phone and said 'what are you doing' i acted like i didnt hear her and i said 'what?' and she just turned around saying 'never mind'...what does she want plz help!!! Then, on the second to last day of school, we kept catchin eachother's eyes for like a second then she just held it and gave me a wass nod and i returned it and we kept nodding back and forth. Then i put up my phone for sale, and she is in love with it, and she just texts 'gimme ur bold <3' as if we were bestfriends...then on the last day of school, the only thing she said was 'wassup jorge' and i replied like a normal person would...'hey'. she never brought up the message, but could she be pissed at that, we're both 15

Injured on job, what amount is usually paid in workers comp settlement?

Was injured on the job, 3rd degree burn to left foot,surgery for skin graft, and must wear compression sock for about a year. I know only a expert knows the exact amount you should get for a settlement, but what are the formulas or the minimum wks paid in the state of louisiana for burns/injury to foot??

Why is Ruben Ecleo Jr not under arrest?

He is under indictment in Cebu for murdering his wife in 2001 or 2002 (depending on which day she was actually killed and chopped up) and his bail has been cancelled. He was also convicted of graft for offenses while he was Mayor of San Jose. He is not hard to find so why is he still running loose?

Why does my girlfriend's stomach hurt?

My girlfriend is pregnant, and she is in the first trimester of her pregnancy. She is experiencing pain in waves, from a sort of moderate burn to a sharp searing pain at times. What is causing this, and is there anything she could do to relieve the pain? Serious answers only, please!

WHY AREN'T I PALE:]........?

i don't remember the last time i touched direct sunlight. im half mexican and my other family is from the virgin islands. an african american color. mums naturally very pale like a pasty sickly sallow yellow color. i used to be 16=14 on the skin color graft on wiki but now im like 27 why.. its eating habits i no but i want to no how to stop the Melanogenesis process and tyrosinase.. and im a hermit that has all the windows closed and never goes out.... EVER! ..PS. dont tell me i should be happy with myself and dont give me basic stuff like vitamin talk or whtever becase i no all that if you come on yahoo ansers to help then HELP me.....plz

Considering Leaving Marraige?

I have been with my husband for 5 years, married 1. He is a heavy pot smoker, and I started almost two years ago after a car accident to try and relieve pain, and because I felt we would get along better (he also grows). He has also has a big porn addiction. I caught him right before he proposed to me on a trashy dating website telling a woman how beautiful she was trying to get pictures and I almost left him over it....Last month he had porn all over my house and I found out he was masturbating in a public place (Gym Sauna). Hell froze over. He was being lazy, not helping with the chores, never saves his money, and he is not very educated, we have never really had personal conversations and now I feel stupid. We are good friends but I am starting to wonder if he should have only stayed as a friend. We have sports in common and when we are doing something physical we are great, but when we go out to dinner or do something just the two of us he talks about construction and how he hates mexicans. I am in a business field, and I cannot talk to him about my job because he doesnt understand it and he doesn't really hold much value in it. I am a good looking woman, and I constantly have men wanting to sweep me away but I dont want to hurt my husbands feelings or feel like I failed. I have been silent for so long with my husband because of his temper and I just try to keep a smile on my face and suck it up, but I dont think I can continue. This last month I finally said something and we have been at odds ever since. I want someone who I can share a mental relationship with. I want to feel like I can talk to them about kids, money and life without feeling like I have to guide them every step of the way. I want to feel like I am taken care of rather than being the care taker. My husband has done a 180 recently with helping out and has been doing chores, cuddling with me, and trying to spend time, but I cannot seem to get the mental connection of feeling close to him. I am no longer smoking because of my jobs demands and I dont think it was really helping. I am lost and I need help. I want to go to a marriage counselor but I know when we do go he will complain about the money and having to take time off of work.

When to collect scion wood for grafting?

Dormant time is when to take cuttings, after Jan 1 in the northern hemisphere. If I remember correctly the two parts of the tree should be outside together. The refrigeration part is not familiar to me.

Pube transplant: a bad idea?

I have no pubes and I'm wondering if it will look weird if I have regular hair grafted down there. I guess I would have to cut it regularly and maybe comb it. Anyone else have this procedure done?

I have an idea for guys who get erection in bed and can not sleep, can someone give me constructive criticism?

What I am addressing effects hundreds of millions of men might even in the billions:here is the situation: since men pass through puberty we get annoying reoccurring erections while going to sleep which in turn hinders our sleep because you have your penis erected and it hurts if you turn on it while in bed; so guys do 3 things to fix this mostly daily problem: 1) they relieve themselves through ejaculation. 2) We get out of bed until the erection calms down. 3) we sleep sideways because if we sleep on our stomach it really hurts if you have erection. I always wanted to fix this problem for myself and in turn fix it for hundreds of millions of men and teenagers. My Solution is to create customer made Mattresses: where when a man or a boy gets an erection he does not have to do one of the 3 things I mentioned; this customized Mattress has holes in it: when a man or a boy sleeping and they get an erection: all they have to do is open one of these holes in the Mattress stick their penis in their until it relaxes. I would pay $1000 if I can go to bed sleeping in my stomach but not worried about my erection because my penis has all the freedom through this hole. This Mattress would be selling millions if it is accepted as solving a major concern that effect Men and Teenagers daily: what do you think?

I don't like our new dog... at all? opinions/advice?

The poor little dog! Give her a chance! Your other dog will love having a companion too. I understand that your dog is your special buddy, especially if she's helped you through depression. But this new little pup will bring you lots of joy too. She needs love and i think it's strange you are saying point blank that you'll never bond with her. Sounds more like you don't want to. Are you worried that loving this puppy will diminish your bond with your original pup? It won't. If this puppy isn't going to be loved then please rehome her. It will be hearbreaking for her to see your other dog being loved and not her. She's a baby for goodness sake. Not some asshole cousin that's come to stay that you have nothing in common with.

GILS PLZ HELP!!!! why is she being such a b*tch?

i told her i liked her and never made a move. after i told her, she wouldnt talk to me but she would always smile at me whenever i looked at her and this went on for a week, then she completely started ignoring me and would sometimes talk to me, we had a small conversation about this hsitty teacher, and trying to make me jealous by flirting with other guys in front of me, and she randomly had called me by my nickname that she had taken away that month but then stopped becuase i didnt respond surprised, one day, i stared i turned around and we stared at each other for like a second and she just turns to this other guy and gives him a flirty face. this went on for a month or two. Then we had a group assignment and she kept insisting on me being in her group, and i just joined so that i can finish faster. Then one day, she just messages me that she needed help fixing her phone, which i was foolish enough to do, then the next day she was kissing this guy in front of me with no regard that i was there and she knew she was hurting me and they werent even goin out yet, then she just comes up to me all nice and crap and talks about how her phone was broken and was all nice to me, and she would call me by my nickname that she had given me and would be the only person to call me that but had taken it away during that month, then she would try to talk to me by rubbing her hand all the way down my arm, then the teacher takes my drum sticks away and she yelled out 'aww poor jorgie'...the nickname she gave me, then she moved to the seat in front of me and started stretching back and putting her hair in my face, but then i would ignore her and she would get mad and threatened to delete me from her blackberry messenger, then she brought up my status that i had on bbm and started laughing...'**** blackberry' and she asked why i put that while cracking up and in all seriousness i said 'cuz its true' and she got kindapissed and put her head down and i guess got sad cuz she stopped talking to just about everyone then the next time i saw her, they we're officially going out, and then she started giving me the cold shoulder again and only talked to me when she needed me, but then we were watching a movie in class and again, she moved to the seat in front of me and did the same hair and stretching thing, and she turned around a few times to ask me about the movie and then she turned around and saw me on my phone and said 'what are you doing' i acted like i didnt hear her and i said 'what?' and she just turned around saying 'never mind'...what does she want plz help!!! Then, on the second to last day of school, we kept catchin eachother's eyes for like a second then she just held it and gave me a wass nod and i returned it and we kept nodding back and forth. Then i put up my phone for sale, and she is in love with it, and she just texts 'gimme ur bold <3' as if we were bestfriends...then on the last day of school, the only thing she said was 'wassup jorge' and i replied like a normal person would...'hey'. she never brought up the message, but could she be pissed at that, we're both 15

Are my husband and I being selfish?

My husband and I got married back in 2009 and didn't tell anyone. So anyway we were going to renew our vows in front of all our family and friends, but due to the extreme drama with my family and the lack of happiness in his family we are finding it increasingly hard to include them in our wedding plans. We are very happy and this is an exciting event we'd like to have and so we are considering once again it just being us in Hawaii or somewhere beautiful reading our vows to each other. Is that selfish or are we right to want to treasure these peaceful moments together? I love my family, but in between the bickering and petty lying I am relieved to have my husband and our relationship in such peacefulness.

I have had a stiff neck for 2 days I think it's from being on the computer for too long help!?

I work on my laptop and the other night I had really bad neck pain that was botherin me from sleeping I got a ten minute massage the following day and it was fine that night now tonight I have it again and I have pain relieving gel on. What can I do to keep this pain away at night? I plan on staying from the computer for awhile and limiting my time bit I do need sleep what can I do?!?help!

Isn't there anybody around here who saw yesterday's Royal Wedding .....?

I avoided all of it. By 10.30 am we were on the M6 southbound and we were not alone. Plus all 4 lanes northbound were almost at a standstill for several miles, I was surprised at the sheer volume of traffic. We had hoped to make better time with less traffic on the roads, if the assumption by the media that the whole country was interested in this wedding had been correct. That was not to be and clearly many many people weren't 'glued' to their television sets. I have no opinion on who was there, who wore what, when/where they go on honeymoon, I couldn't care less. To those who enjoyed watching it, that was your choice, mine was to visit friends.

I have a dwarf bartlett pear tree that is dead from below the graft up.?

New growth is coming up near the base, Will this still be a dwarf Bartlett pear, or should I replace it?

UNEMPLOYMENT ISSUES: Is this country (England) going down the gutter?

I am in the same situation and I have a list of qualifications and 30 years experience and 10 years of that experience was doing what your brother done but 5 years ago i got out of that and found a more rewarding job and gained more experience and qualifications but I find that most of the jobs are going to foreign workers, I cant even get a cleaning job because of the foreign workers. I already take the medication for depression and cant sink any lower and the debts are piling up because I am divorced and find it hard to survive on �67 per week benefit. Good Luck.

My son is 20 years old and has to have his teeth extracted. does he have to have bone graft for the implants?

You don't mention the reason for having the teeth extracted so we can't really comment on if he will need bone grafts. Did they get damaged in an auto accident, sports accident, hereditary disease, meth user, etc.

I need NON air force BLOCKED websites to relieve my boredom!?

...as in im on an Air force computer and facebook stalking can only be exciting for .001 seconds/day P.S. i have no idea how to use a proxy and am pretty sure i need the system administrators password to do that so don't get smart

Stepchild jib stick vs signal park rocker?

I am always in the park on rails and small jumps, so im just wondering which board would be a better fit for me? I want THE FLEXIEST BOARD on the market. Like i want this board to be a noodle. Let me know what you think i should get! (i currently have a rome graft and its pretty solid but im looking for a more jib-specific board)

I need some major relationship advice can anyone help me?

My boyfriend broke up with me a month ago but he's always telling me that he still loves me, misses me, and is really hoping that we can get back together in the near future. He's always asking me to still have sex with him because he doesn't want to hook up with any other girls.Last August he asked me to marry him and I said yes, now he doesn't want me taking off the engagement ring and doesn't want me hooking up with any other guys but he doesn't wear his ring. I really love him and would do anything to get him back but I'm just really confused on what to do and how to feel. Do you have any advice? THIS IS COMPLETE SERIOUSNESS RUDE A** REMARKS ARE NOT NEEDED HERE! Please help me

GIRLS PLZ HELP!!!! why is she being such a b*tch?

i told her i liked her and never made a move. after i told her, she wouldnt talk to me but she would always smile at me whenever i looked at her and this went on for a week, then she completely started ignoring me and would sometimes talk to me, we had a small conversation about this hsitty teacher, and trying to make me jealous by flirting with other guys in front of me, and she randomly had called me by my nickname that she had taken away that month but then stopped becuase i didnt respond surprised, one day, i stared i turned around and we stared at each other for like a second and she just turns to this other guy and gives him a flirty face. this went on for a month or two. Then we had a group assignment and she kept insisting on me being in her group, and i just joined so that i can finish faster. Then one day, she just messages me that she needed help fixing her phone, which i was foolish enough to do, then the next day she was kissing this guy in front of me with no regard that i was there and she knew she was hurting me and they werent even goin out yet, then she just comes up to me all nice and crap and talks about how her phone was broken and was all nice to me, and she would call me by my nickname that she had given me and would be the only person to call me that but had taken it away during that month, then she would try to talk to me by rubbing her hand all the way down my arm, then the teacher takes my drum sticks away and she yelled out 'aww poor jorgie'...the nickname she gave me, then she moved to the seat in front of me and started stretching back and putting her hair in my face, but then i would ignore her and she would get mad and threatened to delete me from her blackberry messenger, then she brought up my status that i had on bbm and started laughing...'**** blackberry' and she asked why i put that while cracking up and in all seriousness i said 'cuz its true' and she got kindapissed and put her head down and i guess got sad cuz she stopped talking to just about everyone then the next time i saw her, they we're officially going out, and then she started giving me the cold shoulder again and only talked to me when she needed me, but then we were watching a movie in class and again, she moved to the seat in front of me and did the same hair and stretching thing, and she turned around a few times to ask me about the movie and then she turned around and saw me on my phone and said 'what are you doing' i acted like i didnt hear her and i said 'what?' and she just turned around saying 'never mind'...what does she want plz help!!! Then, on the second to last day of school, we kept catchin eachother's eyes for like a second then she just held it and gave me a wass nod and i returned it and we kept nodding back and forth. Then i put up my phone for sale, and she is in love with it, and she just texts 'gimme ur bold <3' as if we were bestfriends...then on the last day of school, the only thing she said was 'wassup jorge' and i replied like a normal person would...'hey'. she never brought up the message, but could she be pissed at that, we're both 15